I went into this movie mostly curious about how the ex-Mrs. Pitt would fare alongside a much more talented cast but came out of it with a reminder of the kind of closeness I want in my marriage. It may be silly, I know, to relate a former-Friends-castmate movie to my real life, but don't we always interpret a thing -- whether that thing is a movie, a book, a picture, even an event in real life -- through the lens of personal experience?
Aniston doesn't shine in this; she doesn't even sparkle. What really came through was the spectrum of closeness possible in a marriage. Three cinematic marriages showed us close-close with Joan Cusack and that guy from Ally McBeal (I always think about him dating Dianne Cannon and his obsession with her neck skin), close-not-so-close with midlife-angsted Francis McDormond and her oh-so-gay British husband, and not-close-not-close with the very sad and rapidly deteriorating marriage between Catherine Keener and her hunky unknown husband. The marriages were highlighted much more and much more effectively than the "friends" found in the movie's title.
I want to have the close-close of Joan and her husband. I want to learn to shrug when my husband has bad breath and lie in bed talking at the end of the day -- every day. On the other hand, the close-not-so-close of Francis and her gay English husband was nice, too. Even her bitterness and sarcasm couldn't squelch their obvious connection. He loved her in spite of her midlife angst and ultimately helped pull her out of it. (The split-second scene at the ALS benefit dinner when he touched her styled hair was two seconds of pure sweetness.)
The Aniston story lines were uneven. Her career shift from teacher to maid wasn't portrayed smoothly. Her willingness to have Mr. Loser Blind Date accompany her on maid jobs -- and even have sex in a client's bed -- didn't make sense. And even her possible fairytale ending -- with the odd, disheveled but oh-look!-he's-rich! guy -- was handled roughly. Was it bad acting or bad writing? Perhaps some of both.
I enjoyed the movie. My favorite parts were (1) the intimate, gossipy moments between husband-and-wife couples after dinners, events, etc.; (2) the sweetness of "You were the most beautiful one there" compliments from husbands to wives post-events; (3) the beautiful colors of the sets -- reds, yellows, oranges -- inspire me to decorate. Best of all, seeing the spectrum of connection in marriage reminded me to reconnect with the brit. We'd started the movie after I'd had an unpleasant confrontation with someone else and I was in need of some space to process; by the end of the movie we were pretzel'ed together and I was ready to process with him.
I give it 3 peach walls up!